Jane and Peace, best friends and newly married, had met a couple of times. In every conversation, they were surprised to realize they were both married to men who desire sex all the time.
“I literally have to go into the guest room to get dressed and even shower, or he grabs me,” Jane exclaimed.
With a repeated nod, Peace laughed. “Oh, you too? He comes home expecting we’d make love and is shocked when I refuse.”
Wanting sex has long been associated with being a man, but the truth is many wives lack a deep understanding of how their husbands are wired and how they think.
Why Do Husbands Want Regular Sex?
1. Men Are Biological Wired to Desire Sex
Not all men are the same, but most are naturally wired to desire sex. They have high levels of testosterone, the hormone that drives sexual expression. Many wives may not fully understand how their husband’s chemistry directs his mind toward intimacy.
2. Sex Is a Language of Connection for Men
For many men, sex is the language they use to express their tender, loving, and vulnerable side. Sexual connection is often needed by men to feel safe enough for emotional vulnerability – something many wives secretly crave in their husbands too. For your husband, turning you on may be the most satisfying part of making love to you. He is naturally shocked when you don’t understand this.
3. Sex Is “Home-Coming” for Most Husbands
Men are much more emotional than they are often portrayed. They hurt, struggle, and face life challenges that beat them up daily. Sex encompasses care and love, which provides them with soothing and support. While you may think he merely wants to “cum” all the time, he is craving something deeper than physical pleasure – a sense of homecoming, where he is accepted and loved.
Does This Make Sense?
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